A problem as an opportunity!

What I have learned in recent years from education, professional work and personal relationship is that we should try to look at any problem as an "oppornunity"not as a difficulty.Instead of looking at things as problems that need solving, we should try to recognize the strength of things and try to build upon them.
No matter how many times we change the place of our live, works or our emotional partners we will have the same problems but in different shapes, unless we decide to take the responsibility of the feedback that we receive from relationship with others.
Last night My friend Aida told me if many people in one's life tell hime/her that he/she's selfish, arrogant or sensitive.Maybe it's the time to accept the fact that he/she need to give him/herself enough time to change!